No one kill me! It’s finals week and I’ve been insanely busy with life so I’m sorry I’m just now catching up! But I promise to answer questions and post. I’m slacking, I know!!!
Where you’d like to be in 10 years
I honestly have no idea and perhaps that isn’t such a bad thing. They always say live in the present, but we also want to plan for our future. I’m not sure WHERE exactly I will be in 10 years but I certainly know where I’d like to be. I would love to be in North Carolina, as I’ve heard it’s beautiful, dog friendly, has agility galore and nice areas to hike and swim. I’ll have to visit first though. I would also be happy to have my dog training business begun and established with some steady and regular clients as well as a comfortable cushion of funds to be able to work by doing what I love and also taking time off to enjoy life with my own dogs. I would also like to see both Shimmer and Vengeance still alive, and although I don’t wish to sound pessimistic, I will be realistic and mention that this would peg Shimmer at 18 years of age for a dog. I have faith, but I’m not sure how long her body will decide to stay on this earth. So for now, I won’t worry about that part of the future; I’ll just simply enjoy her beautiful company! Vengeance will be 12 years old and I’m actually certain he’ll still be bouncing off the walls like a nut job. #bordercollielife
Regardless, I would just like to be somewhere I feel comfortable. In 10 years, I hope to feel good, happy and healthy and I hope to be able to smile about my life. I hope to still have my beautiful mother on my journey with and be surrounded by some of the wonderful friends I share my life with today. One can hope…
Your views on drugs and alcohol
So, drugs are definitely not defined but for all intents and purposes we will consider the “drugs” mentioned above, anything that is considered life threatening that a doctor cannot prescribe or you can’t buy at a store if you’re sick. Drugs are a huge no for me. Ask me about the legalization of marijuana some other time because honestly, at this point, I’m not sure how I feel about that hot topic. Alcohol is a touchy subject because my father always drank and wasn’t a very pleasant person to be around. However, I am 22 years old and I occasionally have a drink. I’m a fan of having a drink when going out to dinner, celebrating something or just being at home and enjoying something and being able to relax. I am not a fan of “piss-ass drunk” however, and really don’t understand why someone would want to get themselves so wasted that they can’t remember what they did or who they were with. So, overall drugs are a big no and alcohol is determined by the situation. But, I certainly don’t frown on others. What you do with your life is up to you and determined by your choices. I cannot stop you nor will I try because it is not my life. My only pet peeve is, if you’re going to get wasted or high, don’t endanger other lives by driving or doing something stupid that could kill someone. You are in control of YOUR life only. Don’t take someone else’s because you made a stupid choice.
Your views on religion
Oh my! Hot topic alert number 3! Good grief it’s a slew of good ones today. I’ve talked about this with close friends of mine, but never out loud like this. My parents never gave me a religion when I was younger because they wanted me to decide what I believed in as I grew up. To this day, I still am not sure what I believe in. I wouldn’t consider myself part of a religious group but I do not see myself as an atheist either. I’m not sure if I believe in a God or any number of Gods. But, I also don’t buy the idea that there is nothing there and nothing to believe in. I consider myself agnostic at this point and perhaps I’ll stay that way my entire life. We shall see. I have always said I am a firm believer that we all deserve happiness. However, our definition of happiness is so varied and everyone wants something a little different out of life. I’ve toyed with the idea that perhaps, whatever it is we believe is what happens so that everyone has something different going on. Perhaps those that believe in reincarnation go on to live life in another form or fashion again. Others who believe in Heaven spend eternity there with their spirit happy and peaceful. Some believe in nothing, and maybe that’s exactly what it is. Simply nothing. It’s a strange thought to wrap my mind around personally, but we all think of it a little differently. If I had to think of what I would wish or hope happened after my soul has exhausted it’s time on earth and my body no longer needed, I would hope to be in a place that includes the happy memories, thoughts, feelings and emotions of my life and what made it worthwhile. I don’t ever want to even think about forgetting what life was about and how wonderful it was. My thought for certain is, why do we form all of these important relationships and friendships in life if we don’t ever see those spirits again and reunite with them in a happy way? What is the point and the reason for it? So, I certainly do believe that in one form or fashion, when we are done with our time here on earth, we do reunite with those who gave us joy and helped us feel complete. At least I would hope so. I think of my past pets and family members who are gone as well as those people and animals in my life today. I certainly hope this isn’t the only time I will have the pleasure of knowing them. If you’ve ever read the rainbow bridge poem about animals, dogs specifically, I certainly can picture the day I leave earth and reunite with Shimmer and Vengeance and all the past and future spirits that made my life what it is today. It’s that happiness that I hope will stay with me forever, even long after I am gone from this earth. Death is an interesting thing. It’s scary and at the same time fascinating to even think about. I’ve always been terrified of dying, but as I type this out and consider what may happen and hopefully what will, I can’t help but think that perhaps, I am taken care of somehow…so maybe there is a God or Gods and maybe something that is completely different than what we even consider is out there beyond our comprehension, but something…something is watching out for us.